Taking the first step: My journey as a first Generation university student
I still remember the day I received my university offer. It felt like standing on the edge of something completely unfamiliar. It was exciting but also daunting.
As the first person in my family to take this path, I had no model to follow. There were no relatives who could tell me what university life was really like and nobody who had already navigated the journey I was about to begin. I found myself stepping into the unknown.
Growing up, university was always presented as an opportunity worth considering. Teachers and careers advisers spoke about it as a gateway to wider career prospects and experiences that could broaden your horizons. Alongside the academic benefits, there was the promise of meeting new people, exploring a different city and gaining a sense of independence. On paper it sounded like a great opportunity for me.
Yet despite all those potential benefits, I still had a lingering feeling of uncertainty. If university opened so many doors, why had nobody in my immediate circle gone before me? Would I fit in? Would I be able to handle the academic demands? Was I making the right decision?
For many first-generation students, that feeling of entering the unknown can be just as big as the decision to go to university itself.
When I decided university was something I wanted to pursue and it came to choosing where to study, the number of universities and courses available felt overwhelming. To help narrow down my options, I focused on three things that mattered most to me. I wanted the chance to move away from home, to continue studying History and to live in a vibrant city with plenty to see and do.
With those priorities in mind, my search became much more manageable. Eventually, I decided to study Modern History at Leeds Beckett University.
This decision came after attending an open day. Leeds Beckett felt like the right fit almost immediately. The course content aligned with the areas of history I was most interested in, the city had the energy and opportunities I was looking for and it was reassuring to see the range of support services available for students.
As someone from Sheffield, Leeds offered the perfect balance. It was far enough away to give me a sense of independence but close enough to return home whenever I wanted. I was excited.
I arrived in Leeds as a freshly turned 18 year old who had never lived away from home before. I found myself navigating not only university study but also an entirely new level of independence. From managing my own time and budget to figuring out everyday life.
In many ways, university wasn’t just about becoming a student. It was about finding my feet as an adult. While the transition felt overwhelming at times, it was also the beginning of a period of enormous personal growth. It was the best thing I ever did.
Looking back now, I can see that the uncertainty I felt before arriving at university was completely normal. Being the first in your family to take that step means there isn’t always a clear blueprint to follow. But that’s also what made my journey so rewarding. You learn as you go and open doors not only for yourself but potentially for those who come after you.
My top tips for first-generation students:
- Remember that you belong here – Being new to something doesn’t mean you’re not capable of it.
- Make the most of every opportunity – University is about more than just your studies. Join societies, explore your local area and consider placements or volunteering opportunities. These experiences are a great way to meet new people and build a network.
- Prioritise your wellbeing – Starting university is a big change for anyone and it’s normal to find it daunting at times. Your wellbeing should always come first. Universities offer a wide range of support services so don’t be afraid to reach out and ask for help before things start to feel overwhelming.
- Create a realistic budget – Living independently often means managing your own finances. Create a budget for rent, food, travel, bills and social activities. Most universities also provide financial advice and support if you need it.
- Be proud of yourself – Being the first takes courage and resilience. You’ve already achieved a huge amount by getting this far.
Being a first generation student isn’t a disadvantage. It’s a testament to your determination and something to be proud of.
